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Justin Bieber get attacked by a fan

Justin Bieber was attacked onstage by a crazed fan in Dubai last night [Sunday], sparking fresh concerns for his safety.

The unsuspecting twiggy popstar was ambushed from behind by the male midway through a piano performance.

In a video uploaded to YouTube, the attacker is seen storming the stage and grabbing Bieber sending the piano crashing over as the pair tussle to the ground.

The 19-year-old singer freed himself and fled to the other side of the stage as security lunged at the potentially dangerous stage stormer.

The singer was shaken by the incident but avoided more drama by keeping things professional, ahem, and continued singing his poptastic tune Believe for his better behaved die-hard fans.

In a message posted on his Twitter account today, he told his fans: "Dubai. Nothing stops the show."

A witness tweeted: “Whoa. Crazy fan tackled @justinbieber and knocked the piano down the stage. Mayhem.”

Bieber's guitarist added: "It wasn't a prank. Someone ran on stage during Believe and the piano got knocked off its platform. Everyone is fine. No need to worry!"

Thomas Ovesen COO at Done Events confirmed to The National: "A young fan desperate to meet his idol did make his way on stage, but was immediately removed and Justin professionally continued with his show.

"As far as we know no further action has been taken against the youth."

In the previous show a day earlier, the Canadian singing foetus left fans furious - again - after rocking up TWO HOURS late - again.

Only this time, it wasn’t in London, it was at a desert venue in Dubai and in sweltering 30C heat.

When he finally made it on stage at 10pm on Saturday, two hours after the official start time, he disappeared after one song to “take a break” and change his outfit before finishing the show at a curfew-breaking 11.40pm.

Workshy, much?

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Maybe he didn't see the attacker coming?

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The Beebs, 19, was booed as the audience waited from 5pm to get a glimpse of the singer at the Sevens Stadium for his Believe world tour.

And then many parents had to leave the show early as Sunday is the start of the school week in the United Arab Emirates.

My source tells me: “Many people in the crowd were really annoyed to be kept waiting all that time.

“Parents had forked out a lot of money for tickets, which started at around £60, and the venue is way out in the desert – and then, who wants to have to tell their kids that they must leave halfway through the gig?

“Justin knows his fan base is young and he should respect this and make allowances for it as he is certainly making a lot of money off them.”

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And hell hath no fury like a parent scorned, as mums and dads took to Twitter to brand Justin “a toerag” (LOLz – such a parents’ cuss) and let him know that he’d let the kids down, he’d let the country down but, most of all, he’d let himself down.

Mum Eileen Wallis says: “You really can’t keep thousands of people – including a significant percentage of kids – waiting for two hours on a school night. Not cool. After 30 years of concert-going, this is also the first time I have seen an artist leave the stage after just one song.”

And there was yet more dramz for teenager Beebs in Dubai – legal drinking age 21.

Although he’d been allowed into Movida nightclub on Friday despite being under-age, he risked arrest by trying to order booze there.

When he was turned away from the bar, he decided instead to get his kicks by “surfing” on the roof of an SUV while it was being driven.

Cool, bro.

Virgin Trains to buy female staff new bras after storm in a d-cup over 'skimpy' blouses

Virgin Trains to buy female staff

new bras after storm in a d-cup over 'skimpy' blouses

 Workers say their blouses are too short and so flimsy that passengers will see if they are wearing dark bras

New look: A model wears the latest Virgin Trains uniform

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Sir Richard Branson has been forced to buy his train staff new bras – because their latest uniforms are too skimpy.

Virgin Trains workers say their blouses are too short and so flimsy that passengers will see if they are wearing dark bras.

Virgin’s business support department is now offering them a £20 voucher for new underwear after delaying the uniform by three weeks.

Business support director, Andy Cross, said on the Virgin staff website: “It’s important that our people feel comfortable and so we will be issuing vouchers in the next few days for ladies to buy undergarments to wear under their blouses.

“Female employees concerned about the new blouse will be offered a £20 voucher to buy suitable undergarments.

“We always envisaged that we would need to review the situation once people started wearing their new uniform and accept this as an important part of the uniform trial.”

But one worker said: “We want them withdrawn – £20 is hardly enough for a decent bra.”

And rail union TSSA has rejected the voucher offer as “too little, too late” and says its members shouldn’t need new underwear.

It is calling for further talks this month after a meeting last week ended in stalemate.

Manuel Cortes, TSSA general secretary, said: "Our female members want to be judged with dignity on their professionalism in the workplace.”

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Lauryn Hill: Fugees Star Jailed For Unpaid Tax

Grammy-winning singer Lauryn Hill has been sentenced to three months in prison for failing to pay about \$1m in taxes.

The 37-year-old former Fugees star was also sentenced to three months of home confinement. She pleaded guilty last year.

During a forceful statement to the judge, Hill explained she had always meant to eventually pay the taxes but was unable to during a period of time when she dropped out of the music business.

She said: "I needed to be able to earn so I could pay my taxes, without compromising the health and welfare of my children, and I was being denied that."

Before the sentencing, her attorney said Hill had paid more than \$970,000 (£624,000) to satisfy the New Jersey state and federal tax liabilities.

Hill had faced a maximum sentence of one year each on three counts. Her attorney had sought probation.

It was not clear when or where she would report to prison.

Hill rose to fame with The Fugees and began her solo career in 1998 with the critically acclaimed album The Miseducation Of Lauryn Hill.

She then largely disappeared from public view to raise her six children, five of whom she had with Rohan Marley, the son of reggae singer Bob Marley.

At the time of her arrest last year, Hill wrote a criticism rejecting pop culture's "climate of hostility, false entitlement, manipulation, racial prejudice, sexism and ageism".

She wrote: "Over-commercialisation and its resulting restrictions and limitations can be very damaging and distorting to the inherent nature of the individual.

"I did not deliberately abandon my fans, nor did I deliberately abandon any responsibilities, but I did however put my safety, health and freedom and the freedom, safety and health of my family first over all other material concerns!

"I also embraced my right to resist a system intentionally opposing my right to whole and integral survival."

Bares please: naked model commutes ... at peek time

Peek time ... naked model joins morning commute

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A STUNNING model gives fellow commuters a wake-up call to remember by riding the train completely starkers.

The brunette wore only glasses and shoes for her nude ride to work.

And in place of clothes, she daubed herself with words describing what they might have expected her to have been wearing.

Skin full view ... model rides without clothes

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The woman carried out the stunt in Dusseldorf, Germany.

After boarding a train without blushing, the lady ensured she purchased a ticket before taking her seat as normal.

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THE model showed her flawless figure to fellow commuters on the train in Germany as part of an art project

Stunned passengers gawked open-mouthed as the woman showed off her flawless figure.

Wake-up call ... but some passengers on the train still managed to stay asleep

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But remarkably, some of them gave barely a sideways glance as she walked through the carriage in the buff.

The model’s naked journey was part of a project put together by Swiss artist Milo Moire.

Entitled The Script System, the stunt was intended as a way of "shaking up the ordinary".

Stunt ... Swiss artist dreamed up scheme

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Milo Moire said the model walking around the train without clothes was meant to make people think outside the box on their commute.

He wrote on his website: “Radical nudity becomes the defence shield against the stereotypes and makes the artist invisble.”

And he went on to say that the timing of the early morning stunt meant ordinary performance art was out of the question.

When Will He Make You His Girlfriend?

Why is it so difficult for a woman to get a man to commit? Are men really that picky, that indecisive, that complex that we can’t be locked down? Hell no. The problem is that some women have become so accommodating and submissive to the guys they’re in lust with that they give them the girlfriend experience for free. It’s ironic, females hold all  power and will turn down ten niggas in a row who aren’t their type, but when a guy is her type, she gives up her power and melts in his hand. It’s not difficult to get commitment if you show these men that you aren’t going to lay down, praise his dick, thirst for his love, and cry for his attention. In short, if you want a man to commit, you have to prove you’re not the same as other girls. It sounds simple, but most women can’t show guys they’re above average because they aren’t. There are women who toot their own horn about how better they are than the average chick. Come nightfall she’s sitting in her bed alone, desperate for a text to come through… just like the average chick. How dare you brag about “shitting on hoes” when you can’t even get the nigga you play house with to give up those hoes you claim to shit on? How can you be the “baddest bitch in here” if your phone is filled with goons and losers who duck your calls as soon as you ask for gas money?  If you’re such a five star lotus flower Harajuku boss bitch, then where is your man? Not the dude you fuck, but your actual man? Any woman can find a penis, few can find a man who actually cares. There are single women who made a choice to be single because they are focused on themselves, then there are the pretenders who say its a choice in order to explain why the legendary box she brags about can’t find anyone to claim it. Let’s keep it real, the majority of these women who boast about being special are as captivating as watching a dog shit. Niggas can tell by your instagram pictures the most exciting part of the day is when you eat food. ”Why hasn’t he made me his girlfriend yet?” You haven’t impressed him, duh! If you aren’t getting the results you feel you should, it’s time to stop lying to yourself and get to the root of the problem.

I tried to tell you before that most of these men who cry emotionally unavailable are gaming you. There is no way you are cursed with meeting the minority of guys on earth with actual trust issues. If dudes keep gassing you into being their practice girlfriend  then maybe its time to step in their shoes and see why niggas only half want you. Let’s take the victim card off the table. Men who you like don’t approach you so you’re stuck going out with lames. That’s your fault. Men who you find attractive don’t commit and you waste your time waiting. That’s your fault. You are the only one who controls your actions. Instead of bashing men in general, let’s figure out why those same men leave you hanging but give the next bitch the title in a matter of days. Let’s figure out why you’re the one who he hides, and she ends up the one he’s hugged up with in his profile pic. Let’s figure out why you’re the bottom bitch that he runs back to when she dumps him, not the one he really wanted to be with. I know what you’re thinking, “why do I have to wow these men, they should be impressing me“.  Bitch, bye. You’re on his dick, not talking to anyone else, and waiting patiently for this nigga to give your relationship the green light, clearly you’re impressed and his job is done. You’re more into him than he is you, and it’s time to cut that shit out! If you don’t want to take a hard look at yourself, then I advise you to stop reading and continue with your master plan of “I’m the greatest woman of all time, I’ll just wait until he realizes it“. If you’re willing to rip up the victim card and figure out where you’re going wrong, continue.

Wow Me

It only takes three weeks for a man to make you his girl. We know after the first week that we want to be with you, and if you don’t show hoe signs or stalker tendencies after the second week, we will usually lock you down. If a guy goes longer than that, he’s most likely scared and building up the nerve to ask. No way is he still deciding. If he’s totally afraid of what you represent he may even stop talking to you after a few weeks, because he knows you can pussy whip him and more dangerously, heart whip him. But never will a man be blown away by a woman and simply keep her hanging until he’s “positive”.  The excuse that men take their time is a total fabrication. We don’t take our time when something gets us excited, we go for it. Do you really think that a man who meets a bad chick isn’t going to handcuff her asap? Be serious, he’s not going to leave her out here in these streets for the next nigga to snatch up if he’s thoroughly impressed. That’s like a sneaker head saying he’ll come back the next day for some retros. Fuck that, you buy them now because your heart and soul demand it! There will be no “taking it slow”, we save that excuse for the mediocre girls. So are you mediocre or are you a bad chick? Let’s break down what a bad chick is. I’m not talking strictly about looks, looks are only part of the formula, and being pretty without substance is the epitome of being unimpressive. To be truly bad means that you are a total package, the likes of which he has never seen before in the average woman he hollas at. It’s your walk, your smile, your wardrobe, and most importantly how you interact with him. The average dude who’s been around the block isn’t impressed by a pretty face alone, he’s fucked J-Lo’s, and their pussy feels the same as J-No’s. So what’s going to make her a must have? My favorite word—Personality! If a guy gets your number because your body is banging and your weave is straight out the bundle, he has high hopes. The physical is on point, now let’s see what she’s hitting for. When you go out with this guy and all you do is giggle or sit looking at the menu searching for something say, you lose points. You spend all day talking to your homegirls, now you all you can muster is, “Oh, for real?” or an “I know, right?” You’re wasting his time, you’re not engaging, and what could have been something real will become about sex, because on your back is probably the only time you’re entertaining. One girl told me she acted shy because she feared coming off sounding dumb on dates… um, if you’re not dumb you won’t come off as dumb. That’s like me saying I fear coming off as racist around white people, I’m not a racist so why the fuck would I worry about shit like that? A hint for women who don’t have anything fascinating to talk about, it doesn’t matter. You know what you know and like what you like, talk about things you are comfortable discussing. Men aren’t turned off by ignorant women; we’re turned off by awkward women. As long as you can make him smile and flirt your ass off, he does not care if you think Rome is in France. There are guys who are married to women who are as ditsy as they come, but what those idiots have is charisma. You can be a shy nerd with a masters who could make a perfect wife and mother, but if you got the nigga checking his phone to see what more interesting women are tweeting about, he’s going to put you in the box.

The Box: She’s cool… I’m not really feeling her… but I’m already putting in work so I might as well keep talking to her so I can fuck. …I fucked her, it was straight… guess I’ll keep her around until shorty from work finally gives me a shot.

That’s our box, and a lot of you are in it right now. Once you’re in that box there will be no title unless that nigga runs out of options and makes you the settle girlfriend. If a guy doesn’t call as much, doesn’t talk as long, or can’t find time like he used to, he’s bored. This is a truth that needs to be addressed: Yes, your shit does stink and Yes, your personality may be dry. In your mind you had a good conversation, enjoy each other’s company, etc… But in his mind you could be wack as hell. Too many women assume, when they should be analyzing. Girls always tell me, “he changed out of the blue“, no he didn’t, if you were reading him instead of picking out your wedding colors you would have seen him distancing himself from you little by little. After sex or a few weeks of seeing how elementary your personality is, a man’s passion wears off. This is the point where the BAD chicks separate from the average chicks. The bad chick is still wowing him, whereas the average chick is now annoying him. If a guy who refused to commit to you pops up with an actual girlfriend not long after you stop talking, he was ready— for something better than you. This argument that men are ready when they’re ready and no woman can change that, is more bullshit meant to spare feelings. Sure, a man needs to be in the right frame of mind, but it doesn’t take until he’s 30 for him to want to settle down. The moment he’s wowed by a girl from Mars, he will make himself ready, because he’s sick of Earthling pussy. Don’t blame it on her having a phatter ass, prettier face, or more money, he could have gotten all of that for free. Unlike you, she impressed him so much that he didn’t want to string her along; he wanted to be actually be with her. She won and so can you.

What Makes You So Special?

When I wrote about the Game Changer, I got a few emails from women saying they are that game changer, but men are too stupid to realize it. If you’ve been “talking” to each other for months and he still calls you his friend—trust, you ain’t changing a damn thing. Again, it goes back to what makes you special, because a lot of shit I hear women claim as unique is ordinary. I do this, I do that… who cares what you do, I want to know who you are! Having a job, going to school, riding dick good—that shit is as common as being blonde in Norway. It’s commendable that you’re doing things to better your life and your vagina is moist enough to make him cum, but men expect that shit, it’s not game changing. The woman with the sharpest wit doesn’t have a problem getting a guy to call her first. The woman who can get it hard with a few words turns him on more than the one who has to put it in her mouth. Basic men get open off of Basic shit, that’s why most women have no problem attracting losers. When you’re aiming for a man who’s already winning and not thirsty for pussy, you have to step your game up! Don’t tell him you’re different from the rest, show him you’re different, because from where he’s sitting you remind him of the last bitch he ran through. Stop thinking about what turns him on, and focus on what engages him. All these girls know how to trap a dick, but not how to interest a man. Once his dick goes soft, will he still be into you? If you’re body is sick and you’re slutting it up around Chris Brown, yeah he would probably fuck. Does that make you the baddest chick in the world? No, you don’t get specialty points for being a hole he stuck his dick in. He’s not fucking you because you’re a great woman, he’s fucking what you represent, the sisterhood of the nameless, faceless, big booty hoes that we forget about a day later. A chick like Rihanna who may look average without the glam, is much more impressive because her personality and swagger is unique. She’s weird, she’s aggressive, she’s so fucking interesting that she tattoos the brain of every nigga she deals with and has them acting crazy. A girl like that no matter how flawed, is worth more than a room full of hoes in tight clothes that came to giggle and talk about nothing. Not everyone Thinks Different, as Steve Jobs would say. The sad fact is that while each human being is unique, most of us are the same. If you want a man to see you as a game changer, you have to constantly work on setting yourself apart. You can’t be like “we are not the same, I am a Martian” and step out dressed like the Forever 21 mannequin. You’re just like the last four girls he’s fucked. Men love when something different walks in the room, we respect when she takes the conversation to a weird but interesting place, and after a few weeks of being around a girl like that we don’t say, “Let’s see what happens,” we say, “we go together now“. Men who’ve seen it all and hit it all know girls like that don’t grow on trees.

Stop Being A Placeholder

You know why men feel no pressure to give you the title? Because Placeholders aren’t going anywhere unless we remove them. Grown ass, intelligent, beautiful women let niggas Pokemon them. You hang on his balls until he’s ready to choose you. It doesn’t matter when you’re ready—it’s when he’s ready. Men don’t have to give you the title in order to take ownership of your vagina, all he needs to do is feed hope. Quality single men are out here giving compliments and buying drinks for single women who don’t think they’re single. Baby girl is turning down numbers and going home alone to wait for a phone call from a man who doesn’t even belong to her. That’s amazingly stupid! She could easily find another man, but that hope keeps her in check. It’s a thin line between faith and foolishness and a lot of girls have let their hearts erase that line all together.  Is there hope for the Placeholders? Yes, but it’s slim. Start by growing a spine. Demand more from him and demand more from yourself. In his mind he sees you as okay, you have to change that perception and make him see you as phenomenal. I’ve told girls I loved them, how different they were, then made of all kinds of excuses as to why we weren’t boyfriend/girlfriend. It was all lies, because I never proved it with a commitment. As long as a man is content and not captivated by you, it’s a battle you will never win. It’s time to show him another side of you. Don’t go dressing like an Anime character and doing Nicki Minaj faces to prove you’re unique, just open up more. I refuse to believe that anyone is that boring, be as reckless in conversations as you are online. Stop texting like a 9^th grader and increase his interest with good conversation. In the end, all men really want is a girl that is fun to talk to during the day and can make it nasty at night. There is a window to wow a man. You shouldn’t be 90 days in and letting a man tell you he’s not sure if he wants to be with you. Nobody test drives a car for a month or sleeps in a new house for a year to make sure it’s right. Stop being naïve! At this point he’s very sure– sure, you’re not the one. You may not leave with the title, but you can leave with some dignity! No woman should be living this placeholder life. You gave him your all, and he still doesn’t think you’re worthy. Take it as a loss and move on. As much as it may be a blow to your ego, you need to accept that not every man will be impressed by what you bring to the table. No matter how exciting you think you are there will be guys who find you bland. No matter how pretty you are, there will be guys who want another look. You can’t get a 100% approval rating, but you can attack every new opportunity at love like it’s your last. Stop being shy, work through your nerves, and prove that you’re not like the rest. You are too old to be awkward, open your mouth, not your legs, and become the girl he has to have.

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Making It Work For The Kids

Basic bitches love shortcuts, no matter how many times you try to explain to them that you can’t force a man to reciprocate love, they look for ways to prove you wrong. Walking away from someone who doesn’t respect you as a woman is apparently the hardest thing in the world. Accepting that no matter what you do, some men will never think you’re good enough hurts too much. And looking in the proverbial mirror to figure out your own shortcomings in order to make yourself more appealing, takes is an effort you don’t have time for. Basicas swear they are perfect, the men they love will eventually love them back, and all they needs to do is figure out a cheat code  to get from Pussy to Wifey by the end of the year. There is no up up down down, Konami code to win this game! Throwing pussy, letting dudes get in your throat, and giving payday loans is a thirsty bitches love hustle, and it usually ends in failure and heartbreak. However, there is one way to keep a man in her life forever– a baby. Basicas have babies and think that maternity will turn into matrimony. Because of that delusional stance on love, these women end up in a never ending cycle of chasing men who want nothing to do with them or getting played by men who use the baby daddy status to take advantage. He came inside you and said he loved you, but it takes more than nut and words to prove that he’s genuine. Pussy is a hell of a drug, and sorry to break the news but impregnating a woman is not an indication of true love.

I’ve gotten more than a few emails from mothers talking about “I’m just trying to make this work for my son ”. 9 out of 10 times I call bullshit on these ladies because the stories they tell me have NOTHING to do with wanting a father for their child and EVERYTHING to do with wanting a man to call their own. It’s disgusting that children are being used as handcuffs, child support is being used as leverage, and baby mama status abused in order to chase away the other women in his life. ”She can call herself his girlfriend, fiance, or whatever she wants, but we have a child together!” A bun in the oven is not the same as a ring on the finger! Just because he loves his kid doesn’t mean he loves you, the proof is always in the status, and a lot of you are hustling backwards. How the fuck are you FWB with a nigga you carried a baby for? How can you still be “working it out” with someone you created life with? If you two couldn’t get on the same page in those nine months—he ain’t fucking with you. If watching you push a human out of your vagina couldn’t get him to see you differently– he ain’t fucking with you. If that man wanted to be with you, he would be with you, there is no middle ground. Spend the night, smash, take his kid to the park, then go back to his regular life is not being with you. Women like that are babysitters with benefits, yet they pop their collar like it’s going to lead somewhere. Take care of my little boy for me, hit me off with some pussy when I come to see him, now leave me alone until the next time I call. Thank god you didn’t need to pass an IQ test to become a mother or you’d be really fucked! You know you’re not being treated right, go complain about him being a bum and curse him out, but most likely you’ll answer that door when he comes knocking because you aren’t strong enough to let go.

On the other side of the fence from those women who get exploited are those who refuse to take “no” for an answer. He laid down to make a baby with you so he belongs to you. His new girlfriend is trying to steal him away, his mother is jealous, the world is against you and all you want to do is be a good mother and unite your family. Stop it with the conspiracy theories and get the hint, you can’t make him want you the way you want him. I know this girl who used child support to blackmail her ex-boyfriend into an engagement. The dude moved in because he didn’t want his paycheck being gobbled up and did the bare minimum relationship wise. He didn’t pay any bills, take her out, or do anything helpful besides drop the kid off at the sitter in the morning and dick her down at night.  Instead of letting go of the romantic aspect, she ended up supporting both the baby and the father. This dummy even brought herself an engagement ring. That says it all, she never cared about her child having a father, or getting money out of him to help out, she was more focused on keeping that man under her roof. Go ahead and roll your eyes at the single mothers who couldn’t get their baby daddy’s to commit, but a lot of you are out here bribing these men to stay. It’s time to stop clinging on to what was and dwelling on the fantasy of what could be and understand that you do have other options. “But we have a child together” is not proof that you are soul mates, it’s become an excuse to act desperate.

They don’t need Dad, you need Dick

Women raise kids on their own everyday, b. There’s a difference between a sperm donor and a dad, and if he’s not trying to fulfill that role, then fuck him and handle yours! Help is for the handicap, and there is no reason to beg and plead for a man to be in your life regardless of your financial or family situation. I’m a proud product of a single parent home, and while my mother had her struggles, I never knew because I had everything I could ever ask for. Yes it’s great to  give your child a storybook home, but if you have to chase a man down and force him into that position, then it’s not worth it. By the time you finish explaining to your daughter why you allowed Daddy to have side hoes, call you out your name, and not come home Friday nights, it’s going to be too late because she’s going to be pregnant by a nigga who treats her just like daddy treated mommy. It’s the 21^st century, women’s salaries are higher than ever, and if you own DSL you can get a PHD. There’s sport’s leagues, camps, and Uncles if you want some testosterone around your child. It may not be a cake walk, but you can do it on your own. Save the, “his son needs him” shit because we all know whose really crying for him to come back, and it ain’t the one in the diaper.

There is also this catch-22 where women think that no man will ever want them because they have a child, so they are determined to stay with the father. How do you know if that’s true if you don’t talk to any other men? You went out twice since the baby was born and hated it, not because all the men you saw were ugly, because you kept comparing them to thenigga that got you pregnant. If you learn to let go of that dream and open yourself up to meeting new men, then there is no reason that you shouldn’t be able to find a husband that will accept your family in progress. “I stopped talking to him because my baby’s father came back into my life” is one of the top ten dumbest quotes ever. Let me get this right. I knock you up, get my fill of pregnant pussy, make sure the kid comes out with all his fingers, buy a few Huggies, then bounce…. Now I’m allowed to come back a year down the line, say how I miss my daughter, cry that I want to work it out, and you drop your new “friend” to accommodate me? Sign me up for the Avengers because I must have Hulked out in that pussy for you to be that damn dick whipped. Regardless if you have a child or not, a man has to be accountable for his actions. Yes, it’s his right to see his child, but that doesn’t give him an easy pass back into your heart or vagina. A lot of good dudes out here don’t fuck with chicks with kids because many of them are suckers for the fathers. It has nothing to do with these women being unable to raise a child on their own, or the kid yelling for daddy, it’s because they refuse to let go of those emotions that got her to take his raw dick in the first place. If your baby daddy wants a relationship with you, it comes second to him proving that he’s going to be there for his seed. I grew up with a homie who would only go see his BM when he wanted to fuck, as horrible as it sound he wanted nothing to do with his son until he was old enough to shit in a toilet and throw a ball. Just because he’s your child’s father doesn’t mean he’s not going to play you. Only after he’s proven that he’s a decent dad does he get the right to try and win you back. Too many women automatically rush back as soon as a niggatexts, “I miss my family”. Stop being so fucking easy.

Don’t Make a Good Dad into a Villain

Contrary to popular belief there are guys who take care of their responsibilities as best they can, and still can’t catch a break. Homie sees his son every weekend, pays child support, gives extra, and that isn’t enough for some women. This situation isn’t working because at the end of the day he’s not with you and that cuts deep. If only you could make this great father into a great boyfriend again. It’s not always over because you two broke up, people change,  and because you share a child, you can see that change over the months or years and then reconnect. That’s some beautiful shit… but most of the time it doesn’t play out that way. No matter how much time passes or how many times you two have sex for “old times’ sake” recognize when he doesn’t want to be with youromantically. Accept that your relationship is one of co-parents, and stop holding his not wanting to be with you against him. He’s not shit because he’s always out with those hoes. He’s not shit because he be liking bitches pictures on instagram. He’s not shit because he had some girl over his house when my baby spent the weekend. Take the stick out of your ass, and stop hating. Does he take care of his responsibilities as a father? *taps foot and waits* Then why do you care how he lives his life as a SINGLE man? It’s not like he’s having sex with the baby in the bed or making your four year old operate the porno camera. Your hatred stems from jealousy because you want him back, not because he’s a bad parent. The man you want forever would rather have Shemeka and ‘em in his bed– oh fucking well! Own up to your insecurities and get over it instead of lumping him in the “ain’t shit” category. Your aggression and anger will spill over to your children and then sides will be drawn. Either Daddy becomes the mean man Mommy always complains about or Mommy becomes the bitter bitch who won’t give Superdad a break. Either way you are making your child choose sides unfairly. Of course it’s going to be hard seeing someone you love choose other females over you, but deal with it like a woman, not a brat.

Never Let Your Child See You as Weak

You owe it to your kid to try and make things work with the father, but you also owe it to them to be smart enough to realize when you’re not wanted and walk away. When I saw Mimi allow her daughter to be shown on TV with Stevie J instead of keeping her off camera, it made me sick. You literally signed off to have your daughter on a show where you are constantly dogged out by her father and his whore like it’s cute? Children need to be sheltered from the ugly side of adult relationships for as long as possible, not thrown into the mix. Molly the maid aside, in real life too many women expose their children to their messy relationship unaware of the damage it’s going to cause later on in life. Basica Alba has her 6 month old on her hip in the middle of the street cursing her baby daddy out for texting some chick. Lakeisha VanderRatchet has her toddler helping throw Daddy’s shit out the window while she calls him all kinds of “motherfuckers”. Why are you so messy!?! Curve your anger until your youngling is far away from the argument. What’s worse than that is the weak bitches that let dudes hit them, scream at them, and shake the shit out of them in front of the kids. Many of these women go right back because he said sorry and she wants to work it out for the benefit of the family. Show me an ass whipping that’s worth keeping a two parent household together and I’ll show you a unicorn. Your son or daughter may never ever talk about seeing daddy yell or hit you, but that shit will stay with them for life. “Daddy issues” isn’t just some cliché saying, the shit is real. 70’s babies allowed men to run over them because they were afraid to be alone, and now these 90’s kids are dealing with the ramification of having basic ass mothers. Parents have no business being selfish, and mothers especially can’t afford to be weak. You have a child who looks up to you and you owe it to them to be confident, definitive, and Spartan strong. You want someone to talk to you, someone to love you, someone to share in those milestones with you, and save you from becoming that lonely ass unwed mom taking pictures at the high school graduation. You you you. Get. Over. Yourself! Stop crying about being single, stop whining about raising a child on your own, and stop thinking life still revolves around your quest to get married. Your child is the only relationship that matters and you should be willing to die alone rather than expose them to your fucked up love life. Stop throwing yourself a pity party and start acting with the common sense of someone’s mother.

source.black girls are easy

Chris Brown 'threw up' after party

Chris Brown 'threw up' after his birthday party on Saturday night (04.05.13).

The 'Fine China' singer - who turned 24 today - revealed he got 'too wasted' during his celebrations in Las Vegas after securing a lucrative deal with 1 Oak nightclub to host his bash there.

The R&B star tweeted: 'Do too wasted at the party. Threw up crazy!! Lol!'

A source also told HollywoodLife.com that Chris attended Floyd Mayweather Jr. and Robert Guerrero's boxing match at the MGM Grand Garden Arena before moving on to the swanky hotspot with his entourage.

Chris tried to convince his on/off girlfriend Rihanna, 25 - who is currently on her 'Diamonds World Tour' - to join him for the night after she was forced to postpone her concert in Brooklyn, New York on Sunday because the Brooklyn Nets need the venue to compete in the playoffs.

An insider previously said: 'That's his number one and he wishes she could be with him on his birthday just like he was with her.

'But that's just how it goes sometime. They can't be together every second.'

But the 'Stay' singer opted to stay in New York.

source. monsters and critics